Haters are people who have the habits of pulling you down. They are the people who will tell you, “No, you can’t do this.” They are also the people silently creating efforts and making negative stories about you so that you will stop from working on your dreams. These people are watching you from afar waiting for you to fail. These are the people who are clapping their hands when you fall down and fail.
Lately, I was bombarded by people who have the habit of pulling me down. And so I reflected, “Is it possible to wow these people? And I realized that we can definitely wow them. We can’t escape from these negative people. I discovered that the best thing to do is to deal with it. Because if we will not deal with it, it will haunt us for the rest of our lives.
Here are five best things in order to wow these people:
1. Pray For Them.
The people who hurt others are the ones who are truly deeply hurting. They are the people who are in dire need of love and God’s mercy. People who pull other down are people who are working hard to reach their dreams but they are not producing results.
Bro. Bo Sanchez once said, “Love others from a distance” I believe that this is a powerful principle that we can use in order to deal with our haters. Pray for them. Speak blessings to flow over them. For many years, I have been hurt by a lot of people but I always ask God to bless these people so that they will become happy and will no longer hurt others.
2. Speak Good Things About Them.
It is difficult to see good things in other people. Especially to the people who are pulling you down. But, as bad as it sounds, I believe that there are still good things about these people. And so, if you’ve got the chance to tell good things about these people, then do it.
It is better to spread good stories that will inspire others and increase their self – worth. There is this universal principle that what you give out, you will get back. If you release good vibrations like good stories, you will definitely receive the same good things that you released. So today, start looking at the good things that your haters are currently doing.
3. While working for your dreams, offer 10x efforts.
Here’s the biggest catch. You need to keep going in your life even when they continue to create negative stories about you. If you are working for your dreams, offer a massive 10 times efforts. Giving them an opportunity to destroy your peace of mind won’t do any good. Instead, stand firm. Recollect your self and work hard for your dreams.
Go back to your ultimate purpose. Realized your deepest why. Listen to the reasons why you started working for that dreams. What made you do it?
4. Focus on creating results.
When people make negative stories about you, focus on creating value and contents. They will be surprised that even if they give their very best to destroy you, you are still moving forward. When they realize that they can never disturb your focus, they will automatically stop.
If someone is putting me down, I always make results. To let that person understand that no one and nothing can stop me from becoming my best self.
5. Surrender to God.
At the end of the day, we always strive for a harmony, especially in our relationships. No one wants to stay in a toxic relationship. And so let us all surrender our personal concerns to God. Let Him work in our midst. God loves every one of us and He wants us to enjoy His magnificence.
Finally, build a life where you can work for your dreams and for your greatest self.
Never allow people to stop you from creating your best life.
Think of the people who will be blessed when you finally achieve your ultimate dreams.
I believe that you are stronger and bolder than ever before.